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If you’ve known anyone with (BPD), or if it’s a disorder with which you struggle, you’re aware of the emotional highs and lows that are part of its symptom picture. Indeed, researchers are interested in the concept of “emotional dysregulation” as a problem experienced by people with this disorder (Speranza, 2013). Ordinarily, we become better able to control our emotions as we leave behind the childish tantrums of infancy. People with BPD don’t seem to have figured out just how to keep their feelings, particularly their, within bounds.

Theories of BPD for many years have emphasized disturbances in (usually mother)-child as at its core. People with BPD disorder have an unstable sense of self, tend to see others as either all good or all bad (“splitting”), are prone to dramatic episodes in which they threaten to commit (but don’t, especially in “cutting”), and have difficulty negotiating the difference between “you” and “me.” According to classic views of BPD, these symptoms reflect abnormalities in the bonds which, in normally developing people, allow the child gradually to achieve psychological separation from the caregiver. The child doesn’t become so separate as to disengage emotionally, but is separate enough to have a stable and secure sense of self. Because the manual, the, places BPD in the set of “,” its characteristic symptoms are viewed by mental professionals as essentially unchangeable throughout life. Part of the fabric of your, you’ll never really get over the instability and relationship turmoil that BPD entails. However, a new view of BPD is placing increasing emphasis on the emotional, or mood, components of the disorder. According to Boston University psychologists Shannon Sauer-Zavala and David Barlow (2014), BPD reflects an emotional disorder reflecting high levels of the personality trait.

The product of genes, general vulnerability, and specific early experiences, BPD is at its heart much like an old-fashioned 'neurosis.' Like people with other psychological disorders involving intense and frequent negative emotions, such as major depressive disorder, those who have BPD are often intensely unhappy and anxious. As a result, they are predisposed to overreact when something doesn’t go their way, like a powder ready to explode with the slightest provocation. In reviewing the evidence, Sauer-Zavala and Barlow note people with BPD not only have strong negative emotions, but that they also have strong negative reactions to their negative emotions. Nobody really does want to experience negative emotions, but for people with BPD, the aversion is so strong that they develop coping strategies to avoid getting in touch with their feelings. Called “experiential avoidance,” this unwillingness or inability to feel strong emotions can create serious psychological difficulties in coping with.

As a result of the emotional distancing that people with BPD engage in, they lack “,” or the ability to be aware of and accept what’s going on around you. The kind of disengagement that people with BPD show toward their internal emotional states could, according to Sauer-Zavala and Barlow, account for their tendency to engage in acts of bodily. As difficult as it may seem to understand, by cutting or otherwise harming themselves, people with BPD experience this physical pain as a relief from the pain of their intensely negative emotions. Unfortunately, the reactions that people with BPD have toward their negative emotional states only intensifies those very same negative emotional states. The effort they make to not think or feel results, paradoxically, in creating more emotional turmoil and a host of problems in living. Experiential avoidance is an almost completely ineffective coping strategy.

In drilling down to the core of BPD, Sauer-Zavala and Barlow show how high levels of can explain much of the misery suffered by people with this disorder. Studies of people with BPD consistently show that they score high on measures of neuroticism, and higher than people with other personality disorders. Is partly to blame for these high neuroticism levels.

Inheriting high neuroticism makes people with BPD more likely to suffer negative consequences if they have early life experiences that make it difficult for them to learn how to manage their emotions. Ordinarily, parents impart a sense of security and predictability about life to their children. When this doesn’t happen, the individual fears that life itself is uncontrollable. Added to general vulnerability that people with BPD have due to high levels of neuroticism and an unpredictable is the “invalidation” that these individuals have in their relationships with their parents.

Constantly being criticized, blamed, and punished for expressing their feelings, these children develop into adults who show the characteristic BPD symptoms of experiential avoidance, instability, and inability to regulate their own emotions. As gloomy as the picture sounds for people with BPD, this recognition of emotional difficulties at its core could prove ultimately helpful in treatment. Sauer-Zavala and Barlow believe that “transdiagnostic” approaches could focus not only on specific symptoms but on the root cause of high neuroticism levels., which targets faulty thinking as the cause of emotional problems, would be one component. In addition, people with BPD could benefit from looking squarely at their high levels of the neuroticism trait, identify how it’s creating difficulties in living, and then ultimately try to lower it. Helping individuals with BPD through mindfulness training would be another essential component to treatment. There is still, then, a personality component to the personality disorder of BPD–namely, high levels of neuroticism.

However, even though we think of neuroticism as an immutable trait, the negative emotional consequences it brings with it can be addressed and even changed. Following from Sauer-Zavala and Barlow's model, If you or someone you’re close to has BPD, these are the practical steps you can take: 1. Recognize that people with BPD experience strong negative emotions. As challenging as it can be to live with someone who’s constantly overreacting, this isn’t a behavior that the individual can easily control. People with BPD aren’t faking it when they become enraged. Ensure that the person with BPD is safe. The tendency toward self-harm can obviously lead to serious physical consequences.

Although they may not mean to commit suicide, people with BPD may be engaging in gestures that put their lives at risk. Give people with BPD the opportunity to examine their feelings. Because experiential avoidance is such a significant aspect of their lives, people with BPD are constantly trying to keep their negative feelings out of their awareness. Learning to read their own emotional state can be an important step to changing those negative emotions. Help people with BPD become more accepting of their emotions. Part of the reason that people with BPD try to stay away from recognizing how they feel is that they what will happen if they do.

They can benefit from learning that disastrous consequences don’t have to follow from recognizing that they’re unhappy or anxious. Changing longstanding personality and emotional patterns takes time, no matter how skilled the therapist or the friend, lover, or family member. The main point of the Sauer-Zavala and Barlow formulation is that we need a new framework to approach the understanding and treatment of BPD.

The underlying theory and practice that they recommend is one that we can hope will become increasingly adopted by therapists. By looking at the root causes of these fascinating but challenging disorders, you can help yourself, or those you care about, live a more fulfilling and symptom-free life for many years to come. Follow me on for daily updates on psychology, health,.

Feel free to join my group, ',' to discuss today's blog, or to ask further questions about this posting. References: Sauer‐Zavala, S., & Barlow, D. The case for borderline personality disorder as an emotional disorder: Implications for treatment. Clinical Psychology: Science And Practice, 21(2), 118-138. Doi:10.1111/cpsp.12063 Speranza, M. Borderline personality disorders: The central role of emotional dysregulation.

European Psychiatry, 28(8, Suppl), 61. Do Sauer-Zavala and Barlow (or the other researchers you mentioned in your article) have any opinions about Dialectical Behavioral Therapy? I thought that was the current 'go to' therapy for BPD, and shows a good rate of success, particularly for those with BPD who are suicidal/self-harming. Also, your article does not mention the other main trait or feature of borderline pd, which is 'transient paranoid ideation and dissociative episodes exacerbated by stress.' Aka: short-term breaks with reality. That's how the condition came to be named; 'borderline' pd includes traits of both neurosis and psychosis; its on the 'border' between the two. And because borderline pd can indeed be such a serious condition, I suggest adding another practical step to your list: #6: If someone you know has bpd and is a parent, PLEASE make sure that individual has a great deal of supervision RE their daily parenting activities.

Children are at HIGH risk for emotional damage/emotional trauma if they're in the primary care of someone who is displaying ANY COMBINATION of the 9 diagnostic traits or behaviors of borderline pd: (1) frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. I guess you've seen some of my other comments since there isn't much info in my comment above. Every professional that has been involved says she is BPD.

Without question. My sons counselor, my counselor, my kids aunts counselor, the school counselor, the counselor who saw the whole family, the custody evaluator, the admins at the schools, even cps.

They all have told her she needs to get counseling on her own first. She refuses and just wants to do counseling with everyone together. Total train wreck. Everyone tries but eventually quits because 'mother is stuck' She is too angry to get anywhere. She believes it is EVERYONE else that has problems.

She has alienated most of the family and friends on both sides. Now my 11 year old daughter refuses to even talk to anyone her mother doesn't approve of. And I'm so sick of hearing that parents are to blame.

BPD runs in my family. My mother and two brothers have it. I have it and so does at least one of my adult sons. It's genetic, caused from the hard wiring of the brain. There seems to be degrees-some of my relatives have it much worse than others and each person expresses the disorder somewhat differently with certain characteristics of the disorder dominating.

My older brother is the angry type and is known to be violent. He will lash out in a snap. He has been in and out of prison.

My mother is also the angry type, and I suffered quite a bit of physical and mental abuse from her. My son is the moody, romantic type, falling for every woman he meets only to be totally crushed when she rejects him. Then he goes into what I call a 'crisis,' a terrible depression phase that could last weeks or months. I'm much like him-though I've mellowed a lot in middle age.

And like my son, for many years, I was misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder. That it's hardwired and not caused by parenting? You say your mother was abusive. (No judgement here. Just genuine curiosity) My sons have now 'escaped' and are living fairly normal lives.

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One in college and one with me. My sweet daughter now lives only with her mother and continues to act more and more like her the more time that passes. Everything is everyone elses fault. Constantly being taken to specialists for phantom health problems. Complaining and seeing everything in the most negative way possible. Alienating friends and relatives.

I saw my sons texts between him and his mother recently. 10 percent are her praising him. 45 percent are her complaining about her weight and health issues. 45 percent are her bashing me. 8 years after our divorce and I have had literally no contact for at least 3 years.

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I told her I will not respond to any communication unless it is reasonable and respectful. Hasn't happened yet. Still sending hate filled messages and voicemails. I don't even listen or read them completely anymore. Just check to see if it's calm. It's very frustrating but I can only do my best to live as well and happy as I can to show a good example for them.

And no judgements towards them. Just lots of encouragement and love.

Yes, validation helps those with BPD, but a small child is in NO position to be giving validation and emotional support to their ADULT PARENT who has BPD. NO minor child can be expected to provide the kind of therapeutic help that someone with BPD needs. The children of BPD parents are often 'parentified' or saddled with the role of being the 'mommy' or 'daddy' in the relationship. That is highly abusive and can seriously derail the child's own normal emotional development.

Dr Whitbourne: You're not looking at the big picture. We know that stress regulates CB1 receptors in the brain and that chronic stimulation of CB1 receptors (by either drugs or stress) decreases the number of receptors causing mood dysregulation, depression, anxiety and stress intolerance. CB1 modulates the rewarding effects of drugs.

Drug induced reward is associated with dysregulation of CB1 receptors. We know that that there's cross sensitivity between stress and drugs. Drugs make you more sensitive to stress and stress makes you more sensitive to drugs. Plus we have stress induced release of inflammatory cytokines in the brain. So we have neuroinflammation from stress induced cytokines and from addiction since we know for a FACT addiction causes neuroinflammation. Yet nobody is addressing it and BPD is not being looked at as an ADDICTION disease. Tell me.what is the common denominator between cutting, spending, gambling, binge eating, falling in love and starting new relationships, arguments/drama, and using drugs like marijuana and amphetamines.

They cause endogenous opioid production and of course the drugs are opioids. When you binge on sweets and then fast, you produce opioids. Everything points to it being a disease of addiction. Addiction over and over yet nobody is talking about using Naltrexone as treatment. Even worse, some docs want to treat with opioids. Re negative emotions.In studies, Borderlines were shown pictures of people with different facial expressions and they did better identifying negative (sad, angry, etc) rather than positive (happy, excited, etc) facial expressions. So to me that means that for some reason our brain finds it easier to process negatives and it becomes painful.

So what would counter that? Positive thinking. But I didn't hear you say anything about positive thinking.

You went on and on about negative emotions, negative outcomes, gloomy picture. Seems we're not the only ones who are negative. You really must start thinking and talking positive. There are studies that showed Resveratrol and Omega 3 help anger and depression. As for the theory on neuroticism.symptoms of neuroticism.impulsiveness, difficulty with emotions, negative self esteem, risk taking, narcissistic attitude, lack of control, daydreaming.all the same symptoms as BPD, don't you think?

So you basically went around in circles wasting time. Susan, Very much over the blame factor of parenting in regard to BPD along with other mental health diagnoses. I have seen far too many instances when the parents who tried everything and did everything right still end up with a grown child exhibiting traits of BPD, Neurosis, Narcissistic tendencies and HSP among others. The child has a history of detachment disorder from early on, despite more than ample caring parenting. Mental health professionals are doing a disservice playing 'the blame game'. How about we encourage our patients to take responsibility for themselves and their actions? Lack of self love doesn't necessarily generate from inadequate parenting.

Also, for those of you shaming the people noting genetics for not just 'ending the procreation'; very helpful. Much like shutting the barn door after the animals have exited the premises. Compassion people.

Do you honestly think anyone made a conscious decision to 'become pregnant and have a child I can continue any genetic disorder possible in'?

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